Blended Family

Children were never really on the cards for me not for a good while anyway but when I met my husband he already had three children in his previous marriage. He had custody of the children so they lived with him. My mother was a very nice lady very business orientated so because of her work she travelled a lot and they both came to an agreement that the children should stay with him. At first it was a bit strange coming into a family. I was afraid they will look at me as the evil stepmum but actually we have quite a good relationship. Before we got married my husband introduced me to his children and we spent quite a bit of time together. I was really in love with my husband so I wanted to make a good impression I even took time off of outcall London escorts so that I could dedicate time to the children and forming a bond with them.  

Obviously I had to get back to work at London escort however I really think that the time that it took off from work helped the children I do bond and it definitely helps mine and my husbands relationship. A lot of the girls at London escorts say they admire all the effort I put in to another man’s family. Some of the girls say that I went overboard however I don’t believe that as the children I get on very well. I strongly believe that spending time with children that are not your own but who are part of your family especially when you all live together is very important. You have to set boundaries and have discipline and a routine this makes it easier for everybody especially when the children are younger. One of the girls from London escorts was the one who actually gave me this advice as she had experience the same thing with her husband both of them had children outside of their marriage and when they became a blended family they put these rules in place which made things a lot easier. The other girls in London escort don’t have the sort of experience so I don’t really take into consideration what they say.  

Sometimes it can be a bit overwhelming as I never had a motherly bond with the children from when they were young so some of the responsibilities you have as a responsible adult in a house with children contest your patience. When those moments arise I always go to some of the older girls at London escort have had this kind of experience with blended families and they always steer me in the right direction. Openness and honesty discipline and boundaries are really important even when you having your own children let alone when you are becoming responsible for children who aren’t even yours. I will still say that I don’t want any children of my own but I’m more than happy with the ones I have acquired.